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You should talk to your family and see what their contribution really entails.
If you're lucky, as we were, you may be offered help with no strings attached.
My husband and I wanted a non-traditional destination wedding.
After a few weeks of unsuccessfully trying to meld these two ideas, we decided to plan multiple events.
Does she seem interested in you beyond the deposit you would leave behind? There is no view that's worth the consequences of poor service.
Don't compromise -- plan multiple events For our wedding it was important to my family to have a Catholic ceremony in my hometown.
Hopefully this will make you more prepared for what's to come.
Somebody will get mad at you Your engagement has now set off a chain reaction of heightened emotions from those around you. The reality is that weddings set up a no-win situation where someone will get hurt.
So take the time to discuss your family's thoughts and then decide if the parameters they set work for you.
You will just need some creativity, time and realistic expectations.
So before you take that check, understand fully what you are committing to.
Money may have strings attached When it comes to wedding planning, the biggest consideration is budget.
In some cases your family may offer to pay and it will be all too easy to accept when the bills start adding up.
She watched out for our budget to be sure we didn't go over all while making us feel like royalty.