Dating with lonely womens
Every time I hear a woman saying that she “intimidates” men, this is what comes to mind. If you’re still finding that there isn’t one quality man in the world who wants a quality woman like you, I have to question something.
I’ve tried all the big dating websites and I go out a lot (that is another weird phenomenon – men my age sit home on the weekends and don’t go out and do anything so I never meet anyone by just going out and having fun).
I can tell, from your tone, that you’re speaking your truth, based on your experience, and I would never attempt to negate it. Your value goes up – your self-awareness, your experience, your wisdom, your sex drive, your income – and yet, to men, your value goes down.
And the main reasons it goes down are because he wants to have kids or because he’s still a slave to the Maxim aesthetic.
These are not the adjectives women use to describe themselves; these are the adjectives that men often use to describe you based on their own dating experiences.
A relevant aside: Last year, it dawned on me that for every “crazy girl” dating story I had, there was a woman on the other end who was telling her own version of the story, except that in her version, she’s the heroine and I’m the bad guy. It’s much easier to find fault in others than it is to find it in ourselves.
A number of them want younger women (never mind that I look much younger) – didn’t anyone tell these guys that women hit their sexual prime over 40:-)?